Overcoming Adversity
David’s mindset and orientation to help were shaped by his struggles with his mental and physical health. He said he was a “horrible child” and dealt with anger issues. David was hospitalized by the age of 12 due to depression. “It manifested as rage,” he said. David was not a good student in high school and battled with mental illness for most of his life.
He became a father at 17 when his first wife became pregnant with their daughter, an experience that came at a time when David was still grappling with depression and the challenges of early adulthood. Despite the difficulties, he embraced fatherhood and later remarried, finding a lasting partnership with Brenda, his second wife. Together, they raised two children — David’s son and daughter from his first marriage — who were just three and six years old when they married. Today, their children are 26 and 23, and David is also a proud grandfather to a seven-year-old grandson.
Shortly after David married Brenda, he lost his sight due to diabetes. He also spent 18 days in a coma. “I also wound up with kidney failure, so I was on dialysis for a few years,” he said. “I've now been transplanted, so I've got a new kidney and a new pancreas, slightly used, but they're great.”
“I'm not Daredevil. I don't have superpowers, so your hearing doesn't get better. You just learn to pay attention, so listen for certain things.”
As a young adult, he says he found Christianity and was “completely delivered from depression.” David’s family and health issues were two pivotal forces that dramatically transformed his mental health. Before losing his vision, he struggled with depression and even suicidal thoughts throughout much of his early life. However, the challenges of blindness became a turning point for his mental well-being. Instead of succumbing to despair, David found clarity and strength in the face of his disability, primarily due to the unwavering support of his family and his faith in God. David deepens his faith through his role in Mercy Church in Greeley, a community-centered church he helped establish alongside friends from Texas.
Campus Life and a Desire to Help Others
After enduring these challenges, he faced another obstacle. He went back to school in his 30s. David’s academic journey as a blind student has been challenging and transformative. Navigating college without sight has required significant adaptations and persistence, especially as he has never attended school under such conditions before.